rita

Not very long ago Rita renewed the lease on her car.

For most people that's not a noteworthy event. But for Rita it is.

Today she turns 97.

Rita is my sister's mother-in-law, Abbey and Jill's mother. And, she is exactly the kind of mother —or mother-in-law — that anyone should be lucky enough to have.

Rita is stylish — she has always exemplified an understated elegance.

She is engaging. Approachable. And sincerely interested in other people's stories.

For years, Rita would leave her Long Island home after Thanksgiving (never before) and be back in time to celebrate Passover.

Graduations. Holidays. Lacrosse Games. 

Birthdays, weddings, births, namings and brisses.

Whatever the occasion, Rita is always present. 

Her beauty extends beyond the physical. Rita is kind and loving, warm and fun.

And with all the gifts she has, her most precious one is of course her large and growing family.

Today Rita celebrates at Jill's with her two children, five grandchildren and their wives or significant others, and her five great-grandchildren, soon-to-be six. 

Her enthusiasm and joyous spirit are contagious.

We all love you Rita.

Happy 97th!