M and her son Harrison are in town.
They have been invited (along with M’s husband and other son)
to a graduation party for an ex-neighbor’s daughter. She is receiving a graduate degree from
Columbia and has organized a small party on her rooftop.
At the last minute M gets an email from the graduate’s mother
that two people have cancelled, and how
exciting, M and Harrison can now attend the actual graduation, not just the
celebration.
M is kinder than I am and responds yes. She even tells me later how much she enjoyed
it, particularly the speaker, Temple Grandin who speaks on autism and cows. I’m sure I would have found an excuse not to
go.
I think there should be rules about inviting people to your
child’s graduation. DON’T, unless the
invitee has explicitly expressed a desire to attend, will be offended if not
asked, or if the invitee's presence is particularly meaningful to the graduate.
Because really, most graduations are incredibly dull. Occasionally, the commencement speaker may
make it worth attending, but if the speech is that good, you can always read it online, see it on youtube, or watch a live webcast. And unless the class is under 50 (and what
college is that small?), the names of each graduate should NEVER EVER be read.
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