In late
March, for the fourth time, I bare my soul to Cornell.
I
diligently complete the required financial aid forms, all with funny acronyms:
CSS, FAFSA, and TAP.
Everything
then gets sent to IDOC (Institutional Documentation Service).
I check
and re-check the long list of required documents. I give my current financial position and my
projected one. I do the same for my
son. I carefully copy and organize pages
and pages of information. Tax
returns. W-2’s or 1099’s (only for Alexander, as I have none).
Detailed explanations. Documents specific to Cornell. Authorization to link
directly to my returns with the IRS.
The
process is invasive and time-consuming. Getting a million dollar mortgage would likely require less.
After all the paperwork is completed, the copies made, and the package mailed, the difficult part begins. The waiting.
Last
night I get an email forwarded to me from Alexander. The subject line is: Your Financial Aid Award.
I'm too anxious to open it, so I save it for morning.
I wake up early. Go to the site. And can't get in without my son's user ID and password, which of course I don't have.
I text Alexander and get no response. I then call the school's Financial Aid Office.
I am on hold for 20 minutes. I
finally reach them, but get the answer I expect. “I’m sorry, you’ll have
to speak directly with your son. We are not allowed to give that information to anyone but him.”
An hour or so later I reach Alexander. I tell him I need his user ID and password and explain why. His resistance is so strong I wonder, “What doesn’t he want me to see?” As it turns out, nothing.
I nervously open the page. I read and re-read the information. The news from Cornell is good. Very very
good.
Someday I hope Alexander will be able to repay the school that has given him so much — a stellar education, a supportive and enriching environment, a community of diverse and intelligent people, and a place where he can grow.
Someday I hope Alexander will be able to repay the school that has given him so much — a stellar education, a supportive and enriching environment, a community of diverse and intelligent people, and a place where he can grow.
I write
and thank them. I am deeply grateful for their generosity, throughout my son's four years. My wish for Alexander has come true: he will graduate college debt-free.
I hope he realizes how blessed he is; I certainly do.
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