Wednesday, May 14, 2014

a not-so-good volunteering effort

Ellen and I go to Harlem to mentor our scholars.  How bad is it to admit that I don’t particularly enjoy this program?

It’s not the students.  They are dedicated and hard working.  It’s just the program could be so much better and so much more meaningful.  Ellen and I leave each session more frustrated than enlightened. 

First, it’s horribly redundant.  These kids are capable and computer-savvy.  Yet the school administrators walk them through each step in agonizingly slow motion.  They re-explain what has already been explained and understood. And worse, they re-do what has been done the prior session.

Second, the well-intentioned and good-hearted leader shouts when she is addressing the class of nine students (not 900).  And, she talks to the students as if they were kindergarteners, not high school juniors.  “OKAY, CLASS, CLAP TWO TIMES IF YOU CAN HEAR ME!!”  I want to shout, “YES, THEY CAN HEAR YOU.  SO CAN THE RUNNERS IN CENTRAL PARK, A MILE AWAY!”

And finally, too much time is taken up talking about things that can be done in the absence of the volunteers.  “REMIND YOUR PARENTS TO COME TO OUR MAY 23 MEETING ON COLLEGE.  I WILL TALK TO THEM IF THEY DON’T WANT TO COME.  THEY MAY BE EMBARRASSED BECAUSE YOU KNOW MORE ABOUT THE PROCESS THAN THEY DO.”  Should the students really be told this?

I want to help my student weed through thousands of colleges and find the best ones for her to consider.  Unfortunately, I don’t have enough time, since half of each 90-minute session is spent on the peripherals.

If only the administrators would let the volunteers do what they are qualified to do, it would be so much better for everyone.


CLAP ONCE IF YOU AGREE.

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