A good friend asks me the
other day, “How do you feel about Alexander coming home next week?” My immediate and truthful answer is, “I can’t wait.” I haven’t seen my son since
March, when he returned to school. I am
looking forward to dinners out, watching TV in, laughing together (he is very
funny), and trips to the beach. I will put my arms around him and welcome him home. I will be thrilled to have him back.
But my feelings are a little mixed. Because along with all the good, there’s the
not so good:
Adapting to a ton of new
stuff being added to a small apartment.
Worrying when my son is out
late; I can’t peacefully go to asleep until he’s home.
Spending lots more money.
Absorbing any stress my son
may have.
Having a less than clean and
less than neat apartment, most of the time.
So I make a list of House
Rules. I know this might sound obnoxious, but
I’m hoping they will be observed, and at least one of us will be happier.
We both live here; we both have bedrooms; and we both
share the living room. No more telling
me to leave the living room because you want the space for yourself.
Make your bed every morning.
All your stuff belongs in your room; otherwise it
will disappear (I am serious).
All water bottles, dishes, and other stuff should not
be left overnight in any place other than the kitchen.
When you use up the soap in the bathroom, refill the
dispenser without my asking you to. Same
goes for toilet paper, paper towels, and Poland Spring water cooler.
Do not return water bottles with less than an inch of
water to the refrigerator; finish it and/or throw it out.
Put your computer away in your bedroom before going
to sleep. It doesn’t belong precariously
balanced on the arm of the sofa.
After week one of being home, no sleeping after
12pm. It’s irritating.
Put your clothes IN the laundry basket, not on top of
it.
No yelling for any reason other than you are
hurt. No exceptions.
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