my dad turns 90

In celebration of my dad turning 90, my mom is hosting a small get-together of about twenty neighborhood friends.  Since my dad is still at JML (a healthcare facility for both long and short term care), the party will be held there. 

The last year has not been a good one for my dad.  His health continues to decline, though his heart remains strong.

The vibrancy of his youth is long past.

My dad around age 20

His life is nearing its end.  But my father has always been content.  He is a man without regrets.  Most people can’t look back and say,

I married the most perfect woman.  She is still beautiful and can still make me laugh.

My three daughters have never caused me much grief (except for some minor hair issues).

My six grandkids have grown into smart, funny, caring and wonderful adults (well, Jack is almost one, and Sally and Alexander are sort-of ones — adults that is).

My sons-in-law are as much a part of my family as my daughters are.

I live in a place I absolutely adore.

I worked successfully at a job and didn’t quit until well past 80.

I grew up surrounded by great friends.

I always owned the car of my dreams.

I traveled the world with the woman I love.

I have everything I want materially.

I am, and have always been, well-loved.

July 2013

 Happy 90th dad.  I love you.